So you decided to surprise your boyfriend and buy yourself a nice sexy outfit to spice to your relationship. Here are some tips to help you make the most out of it and to avoid some classic mistakes:
1. There is an infinite variety of "sexy clothing" (lingerie, bras, thongs, stockings, garters, babydolls, corset, spandex, latex, lycra, leather, lace, high heels, costumes, etc.) and a wide range of places where you can buy it (lingerie shops, sex shops, eBay, Amazon and many other Web sites). It's recommend it to invest some thought on what exactly you want to buy and where.
2. The market of the "sexy clothing" is not an elaborate market which mean that there is no logic in price levels. you can find the same peace of clothing in a variety of prices.Therefore it's very recommend to do some market research and compare prices before buying.
3. The biggest problem is the problem of measuring the clothes: in many cases it's not possible to try on the garment while measuring is essential to see how the garment sits on the body. It's very recommend to buy only items that can be measured or items that can be returned (after measured at home) and receive a full refund.
4. It's recommended to avoid vulgar or too revealing outfits. If you want to be naked - just don't wear anything. The whole point of sexy clothes is that they hide a bit of what we want to see.
5. It's recommended to avoid "cute outfits" - with hearts and bunnies. Usually cute and sexy don't go together.
6. There are items of clothing that allow sexual intercourse while wearing them and items of clothing that don't. It's recommended to think about this point when planning what to wear: It's might be cool to keep the cloths on all the way, and it might be cool to take them of at some point. It's a matter of taste.
7. It is important to make an effort to act as natural as possible while wearing the sexy garment. Anyone who wants to combine element of role-playing with the clothing welcome, but if the focus is on the clothing it's recommended to behave as normal as possible. Many women feel a bit embarrassed while wearing a sexy item and strat to act a bit ridiculous and that's a big turn of.
8. While wearing the sexy garment is very important to remove or Conceal the labels that sometimes linked to it. This is true in general and in particular when it comes to sexy clothing. The peeping label may convey something cheap and industrial.
9. One of the biggest problems when it comes to wearing a sexy garment is that the woman wering it required to believe that she it truely sexy. Our era, while we are exposed endless number of actresses and models who's pictures are been fixed with Photoshop, 99% of the women not believe they're sexy. If not enough - in many cases the packaging of those items have a picture of a sexy model wearing the item, that causing the woman who bought it to feel even more insecure about her looks. Here there is a snowball affect - those who don't believe they are sexy will act as a not so sexy woman and so in practice they won't be sexy. The solution is "fake it till you make it", or in other words - Make an effort to act like a super sexy woman and believe you are one. remember - you do not have to be a model in order to to be sexy.
10. Remember that there are many small nuances and everyone has a slightly different taste. If the purchase eventually was not successful you should not conclude that sexy clothes are not for you. Maybe something a bit different would have worked much better.
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